Learning to Let Go

Too many time Ive seen clients come in, currently in a relationship with a new partner and many of the present issues they experience stems to do with old fears that's they've lugged along from past relationships into the present one.

Or I would meet a client that's looking for new love in their life, but at the same time they're not willing to let go of old patterns and habits in order to experience a new healthier,loving and fulfilling partnership in the future.

I cannot see the logic in holding on to dear life to things that no longer serves for the highest good and never really assist us in our personal development. It just lingers in thoughts,creates negative feelings and restrict the possibilities of taking a leap of faith into a new happier and healthier lifestyle. Yet we still cling on,

Letting go can come in may forms, from letting go of people that we keep around that really serves no significant purpose in life, a past lover, a past relationship that ended in regrets,in the form of weight, smoking, drinking, drug use, old hurts and pains ( and the constant repetition of them playing over on over in your mind), clearing out the clutter in your place, getting rid of some old clothes,photographs,books,old food stuck in the refrigerator, the list goes on and on ... It's a good way to begin.

My spiritual teacher used to say, if you haven't used it in the last year chances are you're never going to use it again. Letting go is also a symbol to the Universe that you're ready for new beginnings and for better and greater things to enter into your life. It's giving yourself permission to move forward and to add new and beautiful experiences in your life as you continue walking on your path of life.

Here is a very useful " Release Exercise" that I share with clients ( and use myself) taken from Doreen Virtue's Angel Therapy :


Release exercise

So here's what you do! ( there is no right way or wrong way of doing it, just a sincere intent of wanting to really do it is needed)

Get a sheet or two of paper and a pen, sit quietly and relax your muscles, your body, take a deep breath and ask " Archangel Michael what do I need to Release?"

Jot down everything that comes to mind, including your thoughts, feelings, visions or words. Your pen might even start automatically seem to be writing on it's own, which is fine as well, it's normal when connecting to Michael's energy.

Make a note of everything you're receiving even if you don't understand it's meaning.
Then take the paper and ceremoniously destroy it, by burning it all up!

When you light it afire say out loud!

" I NOW FULLY RELEASE EVERYTHING THAT'S NOT FOR MY HIGHEST GOOD"


They are so easy and fun to do, remember there is no right or wrong way of doing them, just a sincere effort in actually requesting help from the Angels!


Remember Have faith, expect miracles and just flow ... you're on the right path!




Blessings
Anjali

When The Going Gets Tough

Most of us normally turn for spiritual help or advice when it comes down to a point or period in our lives that there just seems to be no other viable solution at hand. We begin to fear the unknown and then nine out of ten times we tend to find ourselves frantically clicking through psychic ads, sites, or looking for the nearest store front with the neon signs buzzing on the window, to find the most unethical or manipulative readers that promise to " fix" you up and of course for a nice fat fee.

Divine guidance should just be that, advice and guidance coming from the divine, from a place of light and love, that comforts you and brings you peace of mind in knowing that you have options and choices, and freewill to change any situation you're in for the better, no matter how much in a state of hell you think you're in.

Most importantly the person that relays the information for you should be responsible for the manner and the tone of the advice and guidance given, and treat your situation as a sacred opportunity and blessing to be able to share with you all that's in your highest good.


A person that works out of light and love will never judge you or you situation ( no matter how ridiculous you think it is and they have the right to). A good reader will have the spiritual maturity of understanding that nothing in life is a mistake but only a learning experience as we move along our path. A good reader will explain and clarify the lessons involved within your situation and help you with learning and overcoming them with ease and peace.

A good reader will also not just be able to accurately tap into your situation and give you a mental snap shot of how your future is taking shape based on your "now" but also assist you in taking the path of least resistance that also allows you to achieve your purpose of being the best and doing the best that you can in the circumstances that will eventually present itself.

So the next time you feel that you're between a rock and a hard place, take the time out to really "Breathe" reconnect with your heart, ask your Angels and Guides to help guide you to a person that's got your best interest at heart and not just out to use their abilities to scheme you for a quick buck!

Always trust your gut when choosing a reader, and select someone that you feel drawn to.


Blessings

Anjali

True Love

When it comes to True Love I can intuitively look at energies around my clients and their partners to determine if it's the "real deal" or not, it's my forte. The majority of my clientele always come in with questions and interests in finding out about their current partner, if he/she is " the one" or if they're single when are they going to meet the love of their lives. I"ve got an special gift and ability to clairvoyantly see the chord that connects couples that have a healthy soul mate/twin soul connection.

I can also look at past and current relationships with people on a soul level to see the lessons that presents itself through the partnerships to help with the individual growth of awareness and understanding of oneself and of the other, to learn about their wants, needs and desires and determine what they want or don't want which now allows for the individuals involved to grow from the relationships then and now look forward to the future of joyously accepting their True Love relationship when it does come in. Sometimes Ive been able to see clients with their True Love, physically and haven't been able to fully enjoy the relationship due to past traumas, bad experiences and negative blockages.

Everyone wants to experience True Love, there is nothing more pure, and beautiful and absolutely Divine about being in the state of experiencing True Love. Yet so many of us find it to be such a difficult task to enjoy it or make a mountain out of a mole hole when it comes to seeking it, or as the majority of us do, settle for the next best thing, crippled in the fear of being alone if they were to take a risk to attain their dream of being in a True Love Relationship.

I understand freewill and free choice as every individual had the right to choose whom they want to spend their life with. But not all of us are fully aware of what True Love is or what a True Love Relationship consists of, or at times can dreadfully mistake physical passion and a strong sexual connection for a True Love connection.

Bottom line, True Love does exists, the ones that still believe in it will eventually attain that quality,radiant and positively charged relationship, the ones that's been tainted by all the past traumatic experiences of dismal and heart breaking partnerships would find it a bit more difficult to re-enter the world of hope and love, but in the end it all works out, it takes a little time and a sound decision to admit and take action in allowing it into our lives.


The following paragraph depicts a very simple but powerful message, written by a very admirable author and one of my personal favourites, this same paragraph was the catalyst for my personal journey of getting out of the rut of "settling" and "fearing" the pursuit of True Love, and lovingly allowing it into my life. It's from the book The Warrior of The Light, by Paul Cohelo :

" For the Warrior there is no such thing as impossible love. He is not intimidated by silence, indifference, or rejection. He knows that behind the mask of ice that people wear, there beats a heart of fire. This is why the Warrior takes more risks than other people. He is constantly seeking the love of someone, even if that means often having to hear the word "no", returning home defeated and feeling rejected in body and soul. A Warrior never gives in to fear when he is searching for what he needs. Without love, he is nothing."

We all desire this feeling, we've all made some pretty silly choices and possibly some life altering choices when it came to trying to hold on to what we thought at the time was a " death do us part" relationship, eventually we may have come to terms with the fact that, no matter how hard we tried that it all just crumbled around us or deserted us, or possibly we're still silently sitting there with the other person, crying and sobbing ourselves to sleep due to the unfullfillment and emptiness within our hearts.

True Love is simply fully accepting yourself and your partner. True Love comes from a greater understanding that you can just "BE" there is no need for striving to show that you're something you're not, it also means that there is no Agenda, you just Love, that's it, no hidden intentions or self full filling gratification or reasons for loving the other person. True Love is also quiet, not much needs to be said it's just known, the feeling the connection the trust the security the comfort and the protection, it's a calm peaceful and naturally flowing experience.

Most of us try to control, manipulate,cheat,lie,trick,assert, constantly please or play the helpless victim when it comes to trying to get these feelings to be shown by a partner, when you find yourself frequently trying to use any of the above ways of getting someone in your life or to get them to stay in your life, you're only going against the flow and holding yourself back from the person that's ment to bring this to you effortlessly.

I ask you now to take responsibility of where you are, how you feel, and to honestly assess yourself and your relationship, past present or event he future relationship you plan on entering and ask yourself " Am I willing and ready to take the steps needed to experience True Love in my life?"

Self Love

I would love for you all to place your attention and focus on the picture above along with the powerful affirmation written. Then i want you to say out aloud " I LOVE AND APPROVE OF MYSELF", take a few seconds to really let that echo through your being, feel any reactions? Squirming? Sarcasm? Doubt? is your body all tensed? feel odd? or perhaps this statement totally resonates with you and you've got a huge smile splashed across your face, stretching ear to ear?

Now look at the little girl in the picture again and this time around when you repeat " I Love and Approve of Myself" look at her smile, she knows she's a prefect little being, a pure joy, she never thinks of what other's are going to think of her if she decides to play, or cry, or watch TV, or make her way into the library and throw every book off the shelf! Trust me I know first hand about this little girl, she's my lovely little angel of a daughter.

For the past eleven months she's been my number one teacher when it comes to self love. She cries when she's hungry, she coos when she's happy and she's got the most amazing laugh when her favourite TV program is on. I've sat there and Ive admired her in her few months of learning and discovering with some mistakes along the way of trying to eat, sit up, walk, talk, not once Ive ever seen her beat up herself about not being able to do any of this right the first time, or have I seen her not wanting to attempt to give anything else a shot because she wasn't successful at things she was not able to do in the past.

Yet many of us sit here second after second, minute after minute, hour after hour, day after day, month after month, year after year, and perhaps some of us even decades after decade, torturing ourselves for mistakes of the past, replaying the situation over and over in our heads, trying to modify the outcome of what's already happened with " what if's" to try and get some sort of relief from the self imposed prison we've caged ourselves in.

I've come from a background that taught me to be honourable, and to be righteous and worthy ment I had to sacrifice myself, my dreams, my desires and my needs for the better good of everyone around me. Only through making others happy would I find any happiness of my own! Familiar story for alot of us!

Where in fact, as the years past by and I came to a clear and unmistakably definite understanding that there is NO one EVER in this entire world that I can make completely and fully happy, was i released from this jail. Disagree? tell me how many people have you been able to fully and completely create an absolute constant stream of happiness for them in your life? It's a full time job if you're going to try to even successfully achieve making someone happy.

Nothing is wrong with wanting to make others happy, but let's stop and focus here for a second, if you want to get on a mission to make the world a happier place, start with YOU, YES! and that my friend is the first step to wanting to see the rest of the world smile; start with self love.

SELF LOVE to me means taking time and attention and sincerely focusing on all aspects that contributes to the wholeness of " self". It allows for us to fully work on the areas of our mind, body,emotions and spirit. What do you want? What do you desire? What does your body crave? What are your emotions trying to express to you when you're sad or depressed? Only you have the answers to all of these questions, and you will only receive these life changing answers when you decide to spend time with yourself and listen ....

So simple exercise , let's focus on the four aspects that makes up "YOU"

BODY
MIND
EMOTIONS
SPIRIT

Ask all four of these parts what would they like to share with you? Listen and write down anything that pops into your mind or feelings and sensations you may feel coming through. I would highly recommend journal your findings, and actually follow through and integrate one thing for each area you've received guidance from. Experience the "high" and the joy that comes in when you take that little step to follow through on doing something for yourself and knowing that you've made a sense of a great accomplishment and fulfillment. Job well done!

Self Awareness

Many of us strive for the Best that life has to offer. Some of us openly admit it, some of us like to make it our best kept secret. The bottom line is that the truth of every human being, no matter creed, race, status, or religion, we all truly desire the need to want to strive to live a life of peace, love, success,health,wealth,happiness and of course free of pain and suffering. We all just want to be loved and to stop the hurt!

I've had numerous of clients that come to me for this very reason, be it in the area of love, career, finances, or family. The root of all their consult with connecting and receiving Divine guidance is solely about finding out the best happiest and most peaceful path possible to live their lives.

Self awareness is about being completely honest with oneself with simple but powerful questions such as who am I?, who do I want to be?, where do I to be?, how am I going to get there? and most of all the one question that alot of us fail to face ; what's stopping me? this would be a great starting point for those who truly seek to clear the clutter of our past actions or karma, which presents us with a wonderful opportunity to happily create a more positive, vibrant and joyous future for ourselves and those we love.


The truth be told, there is no quick fix for living the divine life, I know there's alot of people out there with the promises of whipping up a magical potion, or casting a spell that would solve all your current issues, and I know in the state of utter desperation there are many of you that would foolishly cling on to their promises to eventually see that you've just got swindled beyond reason. I dont have anything personal against magick, if used carefully magick can definitely be utilized to enhance one's desires on the path, but definitely not fix it. It's sort of looking at a person that's desperate to loose weight, yes there's tons of magic pills and programs that guarantee results, only for the consumer to purchase these products and realize that without the proper diet and exercise there isnt any pill out there that's going to make you loose weight by itself.

So as it's natrual for a person to comprehend , proper diet + exercise = weightloss
i want you to take this approach when it comes to healing your life self awareness + implementing your new found concepts = a happier healthier life; now you're walking!

Get in there, the only person that knows you best is you! Ask yourself, rediscover your desires, your dreams, your wants and your needs, you'll be surprised by the new exciting and amazing discoveries you'll come to see, some you were already aware of some of them would be new.

Part of my job is assisting you in rediscovering your true nature, the person within that wants to be free, happy, successful to love and be loved! As you choose to lovingly walk your path in living the Divine you, enjoying the Divine life, allow me to be your guiding light to make this your reality.

Blessings
Anjali