To Thy Ownself Be True

Another big part of living the divine life has to do with living your truth. What's true to you? What is it that you desire?need? or dream of? and how aware are you of being totally honest with yourself about these things?

Way too many times one might suppress these basic but vital wishes of our heart's yearnings, and in the process loose our hope, feed our fears and entrap ourselves in living a life that's mediocre.

If we deny ourselves these truths and longings of our inner being, our life turns from happy and blissful to disdain and detrimental. When we ignore the souls and heart's calling to fulfill our inner dreams, one will then gravitate towards, alcohol, drug use, sex,food, caffeine or even a co dependent relationship to hide the pain that's within.

Life is a journey, and in that journey we're here to discover the very things that make us happy, there will always be contrast, which is great, it gives us more to explore and discover, to then find what works for us and what doesn't. Yet one might find that sacrificing themselves and their needs and dreams and desires for other's approval, or for someone we love, or even because we're so afraid to admit that what we truly desire and would make us happy, may perhaps upset alot of people around, or we might be ridiculed and abandoned for following through, to create the life we want filled with enjoyable things that we love.

"See the truth and the truth shall set you free!" my mother used to say! I never really understood this saying until a while ago, when i began walking my path of living my divine life, and experienced the liberation and the exhalation and bliss that came with just simply being honest with what made me happy and do it!

The truth is only a thought that you come to believe, and even though as children growing up our minds have been like magnets,attracting mass information of thoughts from loved ones, the media, the groups we join, work, it's all really up to us to decide if we choose to include these thoughts and ideas into our "truth" and into our being or not.

Sit down, and try to examine and determine where your beliefs and truths came from, who were the people that influence your life for you to think a certain way? do you really believe in their "truths" have any of them changed over the years? What's your truth? What makes you happy?

For about 10 minutes a day if you can take the time out to really go within and fine the answers to what makes you happy and what brings you joy, create some simple action steps to make these findings a reality in your life, i assure you that you're going to be well on your way to a happier and more peaceful way of life!


Blessings
Anjali

Learning to Let Go

Too many time Ive seen clients come in, currently in a relationship with a new partner and many of the present issues they experience stems to do with old fears that's they've lugged along from past relationships into the present one.

Or I would meet a client that's looking for new love in their life, but at the same time they're not willing to let go of old patterns and habits in order to experience a new healthier,loving and fulfilling partnership in the future.

I cannot see the logic in holding on to dear life to things that no longer serves for the highest good and never really assist us in our personal development. It just lingers in thoughts,creates negative feelings and restrict the possibilities of taking a leap of faith into a new happier and healthier lifestyle. Yet we still cling on,

Letting go can come in may forms, from letting go of people that we keep around that really serves no significant purpose in life, a past lover, a past relationship that ended in regrets,in the form of weight, smoking, drinking, drug use, old hurts and pains ( and the constant repetition of them playing over on over in your mind), clearing out the clutter in your place, getting rid of some old clothes,photographs,books,old food stuck in the refrigerator, the list goes on and on ... It's a good way to begin.

My spiritual teacher used to say, if you haven't used it in the last year chances are you're never going to use it again. Letting go is also a symbol to the Universe that you're ready for new beginnings and for better and greater things to enter into your life. It's giving yourself permission to move forward and to add new and beautiful experiences in your life as you continue walking on your path of life.

Here is a very useful " Release Exercise" that I share with clients ( and use myself) taken from Doreen Virtue's Angel Therapy :


Release exercise

So here's what you do! ( there is no right way or wrong way of doing it, just a sincere intent of wanting to really do it is needed)

Get a sheet or two of paper and a pen, sit quietly and relax your muscles, your body, take a deep breath and ask " Archangel Michael what do I need to Release?"

Jot down everything that comes to mind, including your thoughts, feelings, visions or words. Your pen might even start automatically seem to be writing on it's own, which is fine as well, it's normal when connecting to Michael's energy.

Make a note of everything you're receiving even if you don't understand it's meaning.
Then take the paper and ceremoniously destroy it, by burning it all up!

When you light it afire say out loud!

" I NOW FULLY RELEASE EVERYTHING THAT'S NOT FOR MY HIGHEST GOOD"


They are so easy and fun to do, remember there is no right or wrong way of doing them, just a sincere effort in actually requesting help from the Angels!


Remember Have faith, expect miracles and just flow ... you're on the right path!




Blessings
Anjali

Just Breathe

So many times have i heard that phrase " Stop and smell the roses", yet ive rarely seen anyone actually really pay attention to how powerful and profound this simple statement really is.

I myself must admit that when it comes to being highly sensitive, the best thing that i can do in order to remove myself from the "drama flick" of life, when things become too overwhelming at times is to just Breathe!

Look at the drastic and instant effect the power of breath has right now. Take a Deep breath in for two counts, deep deep deep fill those lungs as much as you can, and now exhale on five counts.

Feel lighter?, calmer?,peaceful?, more relaxed?, light bulb go off in your head? Great! and that's just one Breath!

Way too many times do i have clients that come to me and i could swear that instead of walking in, they came jumping in with a pogo stick bouncing on in , emotionally scattered and then looking for solutions and answers for their current situations.

The mind is a very effective tool when it comes to training it correctly to work to our advantage when it follows guidance from the heart. But in alot of cases most people have come to accept that the mind is the Boss in the house, and allow it to drag them into the depths of fear based events that aren't even real, causing unnecessary pain and heartache.

I've seen people shackled to this way of living for years, replaying events and scenarios in their heads, mostly from the past and then the second runner up would be all the worse case possibilities of some situation that would likely to never play out in their actual life. Day by day, tormenting themselves with this dilemma, causing stress, physical aliments and in some serious cases even suicide.

So the next time you're able to catch yourself in the middle of one of those " horror movies" that you've been creating in that head of yours, Breathe! the next time that you've found yourself stuck in one of those dreaded daily " oh no!" moments, stop and breathe. Try to not treat life as an emergency, it's always worked out before and it's always going to work out in the end.

Take back control and power of your life, one Breath at a time!

Blessings
Anjali

Working With Angels

Make yourself familiar with the angels
and behold them frequently in spirit;
for without being seen, they are present with you.

St. Francis De Sales

I've been blessed with the gift of communion with these benevolent beings, and will admit that since I've had the grace of allowing them to work hand in hand with me on my personal dreams and desires Ive been my own witness to the many miracles that consistently unravels in my daily life!

The concept of knowing there are these beautiful and loving creatures that solely exists for the purpose of assisting me in making my dreams a reality, and assisting me with any and every event in my life along with guiding me through every challenge that presents itself, brings me so much joy and comfort and relief. I assure you that if you do allow them to enter your lives and invite them to help, you too will share in my exultation.

Just imagine that never again you need to feel as if you're tracking along the path of life doing everything single handedly. That in an instant you can summon these loving beings through a simple thought, a prayer, a heart felt letter, or by simply asking for assistance or guidance with what you need and watch the magic happen.

There are parking angels, shopping angels, selling/buying a home angels, angels for protection, angels for finding true love, angels for clearing debt, for allowing to manifest financial freedom, or even for helping with emotional healing, health issues, whatever may be the trials and tribulations at this moment, they are there waiting to serve.

Because we are all born with free will, not even God or the angels can take away the choice of free will from us. Therefore before they can assist it's very important that we ASK them to enter into our lives and be part of our team of experts that can guide us to the best solutions possible for our wants, desires and needs.


So try it the next time that you are going through an issue where you really can do with a miracle, quiet your mind, and invoke the Angels, just be sincere about your hearts desires and ask them for help! Stay open and as i always like to add to the end of any of my requests " for the highest good of myself and everyone involved, better than i can imagine" - leave some room for the magic to flow, remember request what you desire and leave the "how" to them!

Remember to laugh and play is the Angels way ....

Blessings
Anjali

Twin Flame/ Twin Soul Relationships

I'm sure when it comes to wanting the ideal relationship alot of people have the misconception that the only way to achieve ultimate happiness in a partnership, is when you've met your soul mate.

The media has done an exceptional job when it comes to painting the picture of your soul mate, being this perfect man or woman that comes into your life where everything is so matched up perfectly that you cruise through the rest of your life on earth hand in hand happily ever after, like the prince and Cinderella from the classic Walt Disney movie.

Little do alot of people understand that a soul mate can be anyone from your mother, or father, to a sibling, or your best friend. It could be that heart wrenching relationship that was short lived where you've suffered pain beyond the point you though you'd never be able to open your heart and love again.

Simply put a soul mate is a person that's from your "Soul Family", it's people that we've shared many lifetimes with over the years we've reincarnated on earth. He or she could have been our husband or wife in a previous life and now we see them a grand daughter or a teacher we've had in school growing up. Every life is perfectly planned before we arrive on earth which i lovingly like to refer as "schooling for our souls".

The same way we've got family that's related by blood, we've got family that's related by soul. Ever wondered why your best friend seems to be more of a sister than your own? Truth being she's connected to you on a soul level, and is as closer to you like no other, that's how deep the connection runs. Soul mates are people that come into our lives to help play out certain events some really happy ones and some really painful experiences in order for us to grow and develop on a spiritual level. When the lesson is done they usually move on, if not then they can stay in our lives for as long as it takes for us to overcome the lessons we choose to learn in this life.

Now that's all done and said, this is where i would like to touch on the Twin flame/ Twin soul connections. Basically a Twin Flame or Twin Soul is " the one" when it comes to the soul family unit we've descended from. Normally we never really spend alot of time with our Twin Flame Twin Soul, as most of the times we agree to act as each other's guide on the other side , while one is on earth. Twins never usually meet and connect with their other half on earth unless it's their last reincarnation together.

Usually they will meet very briefly in each other's lives, and usually those short meetings are intense and for the sole purpose for a sprout in their spiritual development, most of the times they come in to teach a very painful lesson that we need to grow from.

Now from looking at this concept then one would perhaps wonder what's the possibility of experiencing a full filling loving and blissful relationship with " the one". This is where the good news comes in.

By working with your Angels and your guides ( in some cases calling on your Twin Flame ) who's on the other side, they all know your heart's desires and what you seek when it comes to enjoying a Divine Love Relationship. By reaching out to them and asking them to connect you with someone that can embody this type of relationship you will be amazed to know how miraculously they can bring this to you, either by elevating your current relationship to that passionate Twin flame connection and feeling, or by helping you to gently end your relationship so you can move forward to enjoy this type of connection.

Most times alot of people choose to hold on tightly to something that's not at all close to the feeling they had wished to enjoy when they first got into that relationship, others seem to be very possessive of partners in fear of not getting someone better, or not having anyone else at all. Only when we choose to trust and surrender, knowing that you are worthy and deserving of this great love connection called a Twin Flame relationship, do we come to realize that when it comes in, it's one of those moments where we rejoice daily for allowing Great love through a Twin Flame partnership to be our companion for the rest of our lives.

So think about where you are, whom you're with, and really ask yourself the question " Am I in a relationship where I am currently blessed to experience this deep divine Twin Flame love connection, or am I just settling?"

Let's explore where you're at with your relationship and your search for a Heavenly Twin Flame love. Everything is possible, it's up to you to really make what you once only considered a relationship you could only see in movies your reality.

Blessings
Anjali

When The Going Gets Tough

Most of us normally turn for spiritual help or advice when it comes down to a point or period in our lives that there just seems to be no other viable solution at hand. We begin to fear the unknown and then nine out of ten times we tend to find ourselves frantically clicking through psychic ads, sites, or looking for the nearest store front with the neon signs buzzing on the window, to find the most unethical or manipulative readers that promise to " fix" you up and of course for a nice fat fee.

Divine guidance should just be that, advice and guidance coming from the divine, from a place of light and love, that comforts you and brings you peace of mind in knowing that you have options and choices, and freewill to change any situation you're in for the better, no matter how much in a state of hell you think you're in.

Most importantly the person that relays the information for you should be responsible for the manner and the tone of the advice and guidance given, and treat your situation as a sacred opportunity and blessing to be able to share with you all that's in your highest good.


A person that works out of light and love will never judge you or you situation ( no matter how ridiculous you think it is and they have the right to). A good reader will have the spiritual maturity of understanding that nothing in life is a mistake but only a learning experience as we move along our path. A good reader will explain and clarify the lessons involved within your situation and help you with learning and overcoming them with ease and peace.

A good reader will also not just be able to accurately tap into your situation and give you a mental snap shot of how your future is taking shape based on your "now" but also assist you in taking the path of least resistance that also allows you to achieve your purpose of being the best and doing the best that you can in the circumstances that will eventually present itself.

So the next time you feel that you're between a rock and a hard place, take the time out to really "Breathe" reconnect with your heart, ask your Angels and Guides to help guide you to a person that's got your best interest at heart and not just out to use their abilities to scheme you for a quick buck!

Always trust your gut when choosing a reader, and select someone that you feel drawn to.


Blessings

Anjali

True Love

When it comes to True Love I can intuitively look at energies around my clients and their partners to determine if it's the "real deal" or not, it's my forte. The majority of my clientele always come in with questions and interests in finding out about their current partner, if he/she is " the one" or if they're single when are they going to meet the love of their lives. I"ve got an special gift and ability to clairvoyantly see the chord that connects couples that have a healthy soul mate/twin soul connection.

I can also look at past and current relationships with people on a soul level to see the lessons that presents itself through the partnerships to help with the individual growth of awareness and understanding of oneself and of the other, to learn about their wants, needs and desires and determine what they want or don't want which now allows for the individuals involved to grow from the relationships then and now look forward to the future of joyously accepting their True Love relationship when it does come in. Sometimes Ive been able to see clients with their True Love, physically and haven't been able to fully enjoy the relationship due to past traumas, bad experiences and negative blockages.

Everyone wants to experience True Love, there is nothing more pure, and beautiful and absolutely Divine about being in the state of experiencing True Love. Yet so many of us find it to be such a difficult task to enjoy it or make a mountain out of a mole hole when it comes to seeking it, or as the majority of us do, settle for the next best thing, crippled in the fear of being alone if they were to take a risk to attain their dream of being in a True Love Relationship.

I understand freewill and free choice as every individual had the right to choose whom they want to spend their life with. But not all of us are fully aware of what True Love is or what a True Love Relationship consists of, or at times can dreadfully mistake physical passion and a strong sexual connection for a True Love connection.

Bottom line, True Love does exists, the ones that still believe in it will eventually attain that quality,radiant and positively charged relationship, the ones that's been tainted by all the past traumatic experiences of dismal and heart breaking partnerships would find it a bit more difficult to re-enter the world of hope and love, but in the end it all works out, it takes a little time and a sound decision to admit and take action in allowing it into our lives.


The following paragraph depicts a very simple but powerful message, written by a very admirable author and one of my personal favourites, this same paragraph was the catalyst for my personal journey of getting out of the rut of "settling" and "fearing" the pursuit of True Love, and lovingly allowing it into my life. It's from the book The Warrior of The Light, by Paul Cohelo :

" For the Warrior there is no such thing as impossible love. He is not intimidated by silence, indifference, or rejection. He knows that behind the mask of ice that people wear, there beats a heart of fire. This is why the Warrior takes more risks than other people. He is constantly seeking the love of someone, even if that means often having to hear the word "no", returning home defeated and feeling rejected in body and soul. A Warrior never gives in to fear when he is searching for what he needs. Without love, he is nothing."

We all desire this feeling, we've all made some pretty silly choices and possibly some life altering choices when it came to trying to hold on to what we thought at the time was a " death do us part" relationship, eventually we may have come to terms with the fact that, no matter how hard we tried that it all just crumbled around us or deserted us, or possibly we're still silently sitting there with the other person, crying and sobbing ourselves to sleep due to the unfullfillment and emptiness within our hearts.

True Love is simply fully accepting yourself and your partner. True Love comes from a greater understanding that you can just "BE" there is no need for striving to show that you're something you're not, it also means that there is no Agenda, you just Love, that's it, no hidden intentions or self full filling gratification or reasons for loving the other person. True Love is also quiet, not much needs to be said it's just known, the feeling the connection the trust the security the comfort and the protection, it's a calm peaceful and naturally flowing experience.

Most of us try to control, manipulate,cheat,lie,trick,assert, constantly please or play the helpless victim when it comes to trying to get these feelings to be shown by a partner, when you find yourself frequently trying to use any of the above ways of getting someone in your life or to get them to stay in your life, you're only going against the flow and holding yourself back from the person that's ment to bring this to you effortlessly.

I ask you now to take responsibility of where you are, how you feel, and to honestly assess yourself and your relationship, past present or event he future relationship you plan on entering and ask yourself " Am I willing and ready to take the steps needed to experience True Love in my life?"

Self Love

I would love for you all to place your attention and focus on the picture above along with the powerful affirmation written. Then i want you to say out aloud " I LOVE AND APPROVE OF MYSELF", take a few seconds to really let that echo through your being, feel any reactions? Squirming? Sarcasm? Doubt? is your body all tensed? feel odd? or perhaps this statement totally resonates with you and you've got a huge smile splashed across your face, stretching ear to ear?

Now look at the little girl in the picture again and this time around when you repeat " I Love and Approve of Myself" look at her smile, she knows she's a prefect little being, a pure joy, she never thinks of what other's are going to think of her if she decides to play, or cry, or watch TV, or make her way into the library and throw every book off the shelf! Trust me I know first hand about this little girl, she's my lovely little angel of a daughter.

For the past eleven months she's been my number one teacher when it comes to self love. She cries when she's hungry, she coos when she's happy and she's got the most amazing laugh when her favourite TV program is on. I've sat there and Ive admired her in her few months of learning and discovering with some mistakes along the way of trying to eat, sit up, walk, talk, not once Ive ever seen her beat up herself about not being able to do any of this right the first time, or have I seen her not wanting to attempt to give anything else a shot because she wasn't successful at things she was not able to do in the past.

Yet many of us sit here second after second, minute after minute, hour after hour, day after day, month after month, year after year, and perhaps some of us even decades after decade, torturing ourselves for mistakes of the past, replaying the situation over and over in our heads, trying to modify the outcome of what's already happened with " what if's" to try and get some sort of relief from the self imposed prison we've caged ourselves in.

I've come from a background that taught me to be honourable, and to be righteous and worthy ment I had to sacrifice myself, my dreams, my desires and my needs for the better good of everyone around me. Only through making others happy would I find any happiness of my own! Familiar story for alot of us!

Where in fact, as the years past by and I came to a clear and unmistakably definite understanding that there is NO one EVER in this entire world that I can make completely and fully happy, was i released from this jail. Disagree? tell me how many people have you been able to fully and completely create an absolute constant stream of happiness for them in your life? It's a full time job if you're going to try to even successfully achieve making someone happy.

Nothing is wrong with wanting to make others happy, but let's stop and focus here for a second, if you want to get on a mission to make the world a happier place, start with YOU, YES! and that my friend is the first step to wanting to see the rest of the world smile; start with self love.

SELF LOVE to me means taking time and attention and sincerely focusing on all aspects that contributes to the wholeness of " self". It allows for us to fully work on the areas of our mind, body,emotions and spirit. What do you want? What do you desire? What does your body crave? What are your emotions trying to express to you when you're sad or depressed? Only you have the answers to all of these questions, and you will only receive these life changing answers when you decide to spend time with yourself and listen ....

So simple exercise , let's focus on the four aspects that makes up "YOU"

BODY
MIND
EMOTIONS
SPIRIT

Ask all four of these parts what would they like to share with you? Listen and write down anything that pops into your mind or feelings and sensations you may feel coming through. I would highly recommend journal your findings, and actually follow through and integrate one thing for each area you've received guidance from. Experience the "high" and the joy that comes in when you take that little step to follow through on doing something for yourself and knowing that you've made a sense of a great accomplishment and fulfillment. Job well done!

Self Awareness

Many of us strive for the Best that life has to offer. Some of us openly admit it, some of us like to make it our best kept secret. The bottom line is that the truth of every human being, no matter creed, race, status, or religion, we all truly desire the need to want to strive to live a life of peace, love, success,health,wealth,happiness and of course free of pain and suffering. We all just want to be loved and to stop the hurt!

I've had numerous of clients that come to me for this very reason, be it in the area of love, career, finances, or family. The root of all their consult with connecting and receiving Divine guidance is solely about finding out the best happiest and most peaceful path possible to live their lives.

Self awareness is about being completely honest with oneself with simple but powerful questions such as who am I?, who do I want to be?, where do I to be?, how am I going to get there? and most of all the one question that alot of us fail to face ; what's stopping me? this would be a great starting point for those who truly seek to clear the clutter of our past actions or karma, which presents us with a wonderful opportunity to happily create a more positive, vibrant and joyous future for ourselves and those we love.


The truth be told, there is no quick fix for living the divine life, I know there's alot of people out there with the promises of whipping up a magical potion, or casting a spell that would solve all your current issues, and I know in the state of utter desperation there are many of you that would foolishly cling on to their promises to eventually see that you've just got swindled beyond reason. I dont have anything personal against magick, if used carefully magick can definitely be utilized to enhance one's desires on the path, but definitely not fix it. It's sort of looking at a person that's desperate to loose weight, yes there's tons of magic pills and programs that guarantee results, only for the consumer to purchase these products and realize that without the proper diet and exercise there isnt any pill out there that's going to make you loose weight by itself.

So as it's natrual for a person to comprehend , proper diet + exercise = weightloss
i want you to take this approach when it comes to healing your life self awareness + implementing your new found concepts = a happier healthier life; now you're walking!

Get in there, the only person that knows you best is you! Ask yourself, rediscover your desires, your dreams, your wants and your needs, you'll be surprised by the new exciting and amazing discoveries you'll come to see, some you were already aware of some of them would be new.

Part of my job is assisting you in rediscovering your true nature, the person within that wants to be free, happy, successful to love and be loved! As you choose to lovingly walk your path in living the Divine you, enjoying the Divine life, allow me to be your guiding light to make this your reality.

Blessings
Anjali